God in the Center

For me, this is the most powerful and effective among all the love techniques out there - Putting God in the center of your marriage.

Then you would ask, "How will we put God in the center of our marriage?". The answer to that is very simple, just allow God to be part of your marriage.

Have I told you that I consider my husband as my answered prayer? He is a true manifestation that God really listens and answers our prayers and because of that I will be forever grateful. You see years ago, back when my husband and I were just mere acquaintances, I've asked the Lord to give me a lifetime partner who will love me, take care of me and someone who will lead me closer to Him. Praying is one of my many love techniques.



When I met my husband, it was not love at first sight. We have gone through the process of falling in love - we became friends, talking over the phone for hours which I guess helped blossomed our love for each other. If you want to read our love story, you can check this book from Bo Sanchez - 40 Stories of Finding your One True Love - you can learn a lot from this book especially on the matters of the heart.

God is present with us all throughout our relationship. Both my husband and I hear mass together every Sunday, we go to confession together and  before going to bed, we both love to pray together. Although I encourage you to have your own separate prayer time, but praying together is a very beautiful experience because you're both praying for each other.

In every problem you encounter in your marriage, pray to God and ask for His guidance. Be always grateful with what God has blessed you with.

So if you thought that marriage is just between you and your spouse, think again, God should always be placed in the middle - to guide you, to strengthen you and to bless you. After all, God's love for us is unconditional and believe me, He knows exactly what True Love is and His love techniques are the best in all of His creation.