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This became my love technique because one time, while my husband and I went out, he commented that I always dress up whenever I go to work or whenever we go out with our friends but never when we go out on dates. When he told me that, I realized that my husband wanted me to look good when we're together, especially if its just the two of us.
So after that, I made extra effort to look good for him whenever we go out together or even when we're just staying at home. I made sure that when my husband comes home, I look great even in shorts and halter tops or shirts. I also take time to put on some lotion, cologne so that I will smell good for him.
Try to discover what is it that your spouse wants to see from you. Like in my case, because I'm not really comfortable wearing jewelries, especially earrings, whenever I feel like it, I'll wear a pair of earrings when my husband and I go out on a date. And that never fails to get a compliment from him. Just the other night, my husband told me that when he's got extra cash, he'll buy me a dress because he loves seeing me in a dress. Then one time he also told me that he seldom likes me wearing make-up, he said that he loves my i-just-woke-up-look.
Dressing up and looking good for your spouse is a wonderful love technique because it greatly helps in a relationship. It makes them feel important too. Makes them feel like we are impressing them. Besides, who doesn't want to hear a compliment coming from them right? And ofcourse this works both ways. When your spouse dresses up for you, give them a compliment or two. They might pass it as a joke, but it will really make their day.
Try my love technique and see the difference it will make in your marriage
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